Different

I love NH- lots to do and I love the four seasons {although I could do without Summer} It's safe to say that my heart belongs in Europe. People keep asking me "whats your biggest adjustment" well, I'm sure many of you are expecting me to say Rich being gone; however with years of separation  experience throughout our life together, I would have to say it's living in a highrise without Military or Diplomatic Family around. Most of the people here are very nice- but they also have the wrong idea of our life; thinking it's all excitement, elegance and carefree living. Boy, there's just not enough time to tell them about our life and I've learned when people have pr-conceived notions about someone it's almost impossible to change it.
I would have to say that the language is the biggest shock for me. Not the accent, but the swearing! I'm used to not hearing those words- and if I should' the gentleman would apologize right away before continuing with his conversation. Here that's not the case; it's quite a disappointment of the use of the English language. Do you think it would be "stuffy" of me to wish for a more "refrained" conversation? Oh well, there's always my I pod with ear phones.
On a lighter note: I've been able to talk with Rich via Skype for the last two days! He looks great and is doing well. I love the new technology that allows us to be in touch everyday, I remember when we used to be dependent on just the mail and the once in a blue moon phone calls. Do you ever think how difficult it would be for us now if we were suddenly UNCONNECTED and there was no-way of getting things back? I mean, my generation along with a few others would be fine. But can you just imagine the panic and re-teaching that would have to be done? Not just with communication but also with writing, spelling "there would be no spell-check" and games/entertainment for children and teens? Personally, I think it could be a good thing.